Support for Personality Disorders

Living with a personality disorder can be challenging, particularly when emotions, relationships, or day-to-day life feel difficult to manage. Our experienced clinicians provide compassionate, evidence-based support tailored to your individual needs, helping you develop greater understanding, resilience, and confidence.

We offer assessments and treatment for both children and young people (aged 5+) and adults.

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What are personality disorders?

Our personality influences how we think, feel, and relate to others. For most people, these patterns help them navigate everyday life and relationships.

Sometimes, however, these patterns can cause significant distress or make it difficult to manage emotions, relationships, and daily challenges. This is often described as a personality disorder.

Personality disorders are common and treatable. With the right support, people can gain a better understanding of themselves, develop helpful coping strategies, and make meaningful, lasting changes.

A person-centered approach

Personality difficulties affect everyone differently. Rather than focusing solely on diagnostic labels, we take a person-centred approach that considers your unique experiences, strengths, and challenges.

While you may still hear terms such as Borderline Personality Disorder or Antisocial Personality Disorder, many services are moving towards a more flexible understanding of personality difficulties as existing on a spectrum.

Our focus is on understanding how difficulties may be affecting your emotions, relationships, self-esteem, and daily life, so that support can be tailored to your individual needs and goals.

The way personality disorders are described and diagnosed in the UK is beginning to change. We welcome this move and have already adopted a more understanding and person-centred approach.

In the past, people were often given specific labels, such as ‘borderline’ or ‘antisocial’ personality disorder. While these terms are still sometimes used, professionals are gradually moving away from fixed categories.

Instead, the newer approach looks at personality difficulties as something that exists on a spectrum. It focuses on how much someone is struggling, rather than trying to fit their experiences into a single label. You might hear professionals talk about mild, moderate, or severe difficulties, and describe the kinds of challenges you’re facing, such as managing emotions, relationships, or sense of self.

This change is happening because many people felt that the old system didn’t fully reflect their experiences. Some found the labels confusing, limiting, or even stigmatising. The newer approach aims to be more flexible, more accurate and more focused on what support someone might need.

It’s important to know that this change is still ongoing. Although our clinicians are using this new language, you may continue to hear both old and new terms used across different services.

Most importantly, whatever words are used, your experiences are valid and support is available. With the right help, many people find ways to better understand themselves, manage difficulties, and build meaningful lives.

Support for adults

Our adult clinical team helps people better understand themselves and develop practical ways to manage the challenges associated with personality difficulties. As a psychiatrist-led service, we offer evidence-based support tailored to your needs.

  • Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT)
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

  • Schema Therapy

Support for young people

Our Child and Adolescent Mental Health team supports young people experiencing emotional and behavioural difficulties associated with personality development and related challenges. Care is tailored to the individual and delivered by clinicians experienced in working with children and adolescents.

  • Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT)
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

  • Play or creative therapies

Meet our clinicians

Reviews from MOAI clients

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Paul Fonceca
4 days ago
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I genuinely couldn't recommend MOAI Psychology highly enough. From the beginning, the whole process felt professional, supportive and genuinely focused on me as an individual rather than simply treating me as another client going through a service. I completed 12 therapy sessions with Dr Evie Bamigbade, and the experience has had a profound impact on me. Evie has an incredible ability to challenge you and encourage you to look at things differently, while creating an environment where you feel completely safe to be open and honest. I went into therapy wanting to better understand myself and how I deal with my emotions. I've come away with not only a much deeper understanding of myself and some of the patterns I've carried for years, but practical tools that I now use in everyday life. I've noticed genuine changes in how I handle difficult emotions, anxiety, relationships and stressful situations, and people around me have noticed the difference too. What I appreciated most was that I never felt judged or as though I was being told how I should feel. I was helped to understand what was happening, develop the skills to deal with it and ultimately trust myself to use them. I'm incredibly grateful to Evie and the wider team at MOAI for the support I've received. Finishing therapy actually felt bittersweet because I enjoyed the sessions so much, but I think coming away feeling equipped to continue the work yourself is probably one of the best endorsements of good therapy I can give. An excellent service and an experience I'm genuinely very thankful for.
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Beth Baird
17 days ago
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The clinic has been so very supportive of my daughter who at age 17 was diagnosed with dual form ADHD. Dr Singh and then Dr Davey could not have been more helpful, and have been warm, clinically insightful and professional at all times. Thank you all for your assistance in getting her through her exams and off to her chosen University in London. Your secretarial staff are also excellent!
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Charlotte Lucas
21 days ago
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Professional and approachable. Moai carried out detailed wellbeing research, working with our staffing body. Every member of the team fedback that the process was insightful and valuable and management noticed a decline in unexplained absence.
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Michael White
21 days ago
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We were in a very difficult situation with a very unwell member of my family. MOAI Health helped co-ordinate the assessment care needed. I can’t thank them enough for the compassion and empathy they demonstrated.
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Christopher Crane
21 days ago
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We had an excellent experience with MOAI Health when our son underwent an ADHD assessment, and I would have no hesitation whatsoever in recommending them to other parents. We had become concerned about his concentration and felt that a professional assessment would help us better understand what he was experiencing and, importantly, what we could do to support him. From the outset, the whole process with MOAI Health was extremely professional, efficient and reassuring. The assessment itself was conducted in person by a professional who was excellent with our son. He was made to feel comfortable throughout, and the clinician managed to engage with him in a way that felt straightforward and stress-free. Everything was explained clearly to us, both during the assessment and afterwards, and we came away with a much clearer understanding of our son's needs. The detailed report we received was comprehensive, clearly written and included a range of useful recommendations to help us support our son going forward. It has also been very helpful to share the report with his school, giving them a better understanding of his needs and how they can support him. Overall, we found MOAI Health to be professional, knowledgeable, efficient and genuinely helpful. The whole process was pain-free, and we now have a clear diagnosis together with practical guidance on the next steps. I would certainly recommend MOAI Health to any parent who is considering an ADHD assessment for their child. They made the process straightforward from start to finish and provided us with exactly the clarity and practical advice we were looking for. A thoroughly excellent service.
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Jamie Franklin
25 days ago
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So happy to have gotten the support and help from MOAI and Dr Kiran Shetra. So appreciative that I was able to have access and the opportunity to use the service. Every employer should utilise and offer MOAI Health.
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Gus Anderson
27 days ago
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Very good experience with Moai. Helped me get to the route of my issues and suggest methods to maintain moving forward. Quick replies and very supportive therapists. Overall I found the experience hugely beneficial.
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Lee Dimmock
30 days ago
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It was very good, made me think in a different way. My issues haven't gone away but I'm trying to think differently about it.
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Gabriel Polak
33 days ago
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Great place and great people who made genuine positive change in my life. Thank you!
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Scarlett Y
34 days ago
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MOAI has been so incredibly helpful since I have started treatment with them. I had managed to get my diagnosis quickly and have received great support to help manage my mental health. My coaching sessions with Lucy have been amazing and have really helped me find ways to manage my diagnosis. I would highly recommend them if you are looking for support!

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